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Thanksgiving Dinner 2023: A Memorable Gathering

Thanksgiving Dinner @ The Mellens on 11/23/2023

 

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First of all, I miss my mom so much I cry silently. I wish I had my family back, dinner at grandma’s with myself being the cook as always, kids surrounding the table, grandma complaining about the news, watching her eat pie. 

If I could only have all of my children together again.  I wished Andrew a Happy Thanksgiving and he didn’t respond, and only wish Chris heard my cries from wherever he is at in the Marines.  Despite this, I’m so proud of both and have LONG forgiven anything that happened to cause a rift.

They have a great family here, unlike their disgusting Flavell family and that horrid step-mother they had.  I am thankful for my bunch of CACA (Chris, Andrew, Caitlyn, Ava LOL).  I have been watching so many of our funny and hilarious video’s over the past couple weeks. If only they could just see how cool the Mellen family is.  Stage acting, technology geeks, craft nerds, and everything in between.

So anyway, let’s step into the heartwarming world of the Mellen family as we gather around the beautifully adorned table for their annual Thanksgiving feast. In this unforgettable occasion, Caitlyn and Ava, the step-nieces of Jana and Mark Mellen, and granddaughters of Eldona and Mike Mellen, come together with their father Jason Mellen to celebrate a day filled with joy, gratitude, and beautiful traditions.

As the Florida humid breeze disgustingly aggravates the gathering storm of dull colored leaves outside, the Mellen household radiates an unmistakable Florida warmth and anticipation. Each member of this close-knit family contributes to the funny ambiance, building a day that promises delightful memories and lifelong bonds.

Central to this unforgettable celebration is the irresistible spread of Thanksgiving delicacies. The rich aroma of golden-roasted turkey, succulent homemade gravy by me (a little thin), cascading thinly over velvety mashed potatoes made by Mark, and hearty stuffing and cranberries made by Eldona fills the air, awakening the senses and beckoning us to hurry up and eat.

Beyond the quintessential dishes, the Mellen family’s Thanksgiving feast boasts a plethora of tantalizing features, incorporating recipes by Jen for the turkey and green bean casserole (all homemade). I can’t forget Mark’s buttery yellow mashed potatoes, warm sweet potatoes with pineapple, and fluffy dinner rolls from Publix warmed to perfection, to complete this indulgent cornucopia of flavors.

And let us not forget the pièce de résistance – the dessert, which  was a well received homemade pumpkin pie. Due to cooking all day long, I did not eat dinner.  I sat there, watched happiness, funniness, listened to story telling and laughed while everyone ate.  I ate dinner by smell all day long!

At the heart of this captivating narrative lies the deeply-rooted traditions of sharing stories and laughter by the pun kings, Jason and Mike, as well as everyone on their phones sharing videos of cats, dogs, my kids, favorite videos, they embark on a treasure trove of the funniest memories you’ll ever have.

The night reaches its peak when the youngest members of the family, Caitlyn and Ava, they could only hold their peace so long, lol.  Jana had to step-in and say something about their back and forth bickering at the dinner table!

Evenings and holidays like this unites us all and sets the stage for an unforgettable feast, where food is not only nourishment for the body but also sustenance for the soul.

Beyond the mouthwatering cuisine and cherished traditions lies the true essence of this special gathering – their is a profound silent but visible love and togetherness shared among the Mellen family members. From heartfelt conversations to playful banter and joyful laughter, every moment is a testament to a long-lasting family.

As Eldona and Mike Mellen, whom are good grandparents, bask in the joyful tales and infectious laughter of Caitlyn and Ava, they treat them as their own.  Jana and Mark Mellen, beaming with haste, grovel and happiness in the presence of both their immediate and extended family, grateful for an extended family.

I would welcome with open arms the heartwarming world of the Mellen family for my sons, where this years Thanksgiving was full of love, gratitude, and humerus and treasured moments. This cherished occasion not only fills the bellies with an abundance of delectable delights but also warms the soul with the everlasting bonds of family.

 

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Letter to Judge: State of Florida v. Roselou Warren-Flavell by Jason

March 30, 2023

Honorable Scolaro Ballou:

I am the stepfather of the victim in the case of State vs. Warren-Flavell R F. I write this letter
asking the court to consider the character and past actions of the defendant, Roselou Warren-Flavell, when considering any plea agreement.

This case is regarding a violent attack against a thirteen-year-old child by the defendant, the
child’s former stepmother. The incident has left a lasting psychological impact on the victim. It was an act of brutality, unprovoked and unwarranted. The defended has made posts on social media justifying her actions and showing no remorse or regret.

Sadly, the incident leading to the defendant’s arrest was but one of many acts of harm carried out against the victim and her siblings over a period of five years. The defendant physically and mentally abused the children in her care during this time. In reading the investigative notes from the Department of Children and Families, I was in shock at the extent of the abuse which includes hitting children with objects to the point of injury, threatening them with knives, withholding food, forcing them to use false names, and much more. Additionally, records show the defendant violated the terms of her bond and the no-contact order by communicating with the victim. The actions of the defendant were deemed so severe that the children’s father has lost parental rights for allowing this abuse to occur.

There is no outcome that will erase the scars with which these children have been left. I have been witness to the abusive and manipulative actions regarding the children. The defendant has previously shared her desire to have children of her own. She has demonstrated time and again that she should not be allowed near children and is a danger to others, including her current husband. I would implore the court to reject any plea agreement that does not provide appropriate justice and consideration for the harm caused by the defendant. This is a violent person who I believe will cause further harm and has demonstrated a disregard for no-contact orders.

Thank you for your consideration.

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The best new year ever!

My girls are back home with their family, which is myself and their true dad, Jason.

We couldn’t be happier! The courts terminated the kids’ biological fathers rights involuntarily. He’s a sick son of a bitch that never fought an ounce for these kids. The girls want nothing further to do with him, and if he is brought up, he is referred to as Matthew. We don’t talk about that brown cow of a wife who abused my daughters repeatedly.

My girls are very very happy, they have their own bedrooms to express their own unique personalities. You would never guess they are a huge upheaval in their lives.

I have never seen the girls so happy. Back a couple years ago, Caitlyn was a miserable little brat that you could not discipline. She was a product of brainwashing and thankfully Ava never got that way.

Caitlyn is a totally different girl now! She’s always got a smile even when she’s caught and getting in trouble. It’s just amazing to understand what happy really is and the fact that they have happy futures in front of them with responsible parents who will show them the good in life!

I can’t wait to embark on vacations and extra-curricular activities with them to come!

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Leaving us all enraged… a response to a disgusting post!

Most of the time shit just leaves me speechless.  Sometimes it’s just so bad i’d rather not write about it.  Most of the reason i’m so quiet on my blog since 2016 is because life has put me through the most head shaking nonsense a person can ever have to go through and rather than whine about it, I suck it up until I snap and end up in prison, lol.  I probably should have been writing more — typically my only outlet for me.

I really thought life couldn’t get worse.  Well, maybe not life, but stupid shit can’t get any stupider I believed.  Never say that along with saying, “it can’t get any worse than this!” because darlings, oh yes it can.  People can get worse, and sometimes I believe death isn’t the worst it can get.

So let me rewind a little bit.  I have a narcissistic (by all definitions and psychiatrists) ex-husband.  He never ever cared about having kids, I was the only one happy about having them.  He didn’t smile for a single one of them being announced.  He never talked about them on Facebook, never posted pictures or videos of them, not unless I yelled at him for being that way.  He never thought of other people, like I always took care of buying cards/gifts for his family and mine.  I only had one celebrated birthday at age 27 otherwise you’d barely know it was a special day.  He never called his family unless I forced him too.  He’s a habitual liar – worse than that actually.  Combine narcissism with it.  He’s a huge fraud – I guess that goes along with being a liar.  He takes money or products from people or  businesses then ditches on paying them back. The person Matthew Flavell is today, is not the person I married or divorced.  He was pretty bad for then, but I never thought it could get worse.  It should have dawned on me that someone who would estrange themselves from their own family for me back in 1999 would have been a clue but I was a 19 years old and too busy thinking about love and marriage.  To put it simply, if you read anything online and it was written or created by him, none of it is true.  That is a very accurate statement.  If you get an email from him personally, about 10% of it is true… if the email even comes from him and not his psychotic wife Roselou whom 99.2% of the time is actually posing as him, you can tell the difference from an educated Brit writing and an uneducated foreigner writing in broken English.

Basically his online personality is him trying to be who I was – well, it used to be.  He never was a writer, but the minute he feels challenged he opens up a blog site.  Any blog he writes is all about him, whining, or about his job or NASA or flying.  His old dating profiles, as well as when he posted profiles while we were still married, you could read them and think you were reading about me.  Now sometimes what he writes is what he dreams about wanting to be.  And everyone that comes to me to ask about this asshole I fill them in on the real truth.  He’s also gone around posting boo hoo stories online of him being abused by me.  Like dude, you are the one who went to jail for domestic violence caught on tape.  He takes everything and flips it around.

Well, I can’t be quiet on this one.  He’s done some things this year you just wouldn’t ever think a person could do if they had any acceptable morals and ethics.  I really didn’t want to post this because my kids might actually see it but maybe they should know the truth.  Actually, they already know the truth so it shouldn’t hurt.

Let’s analyze these gems from Matthew Peter Flavell (click on images to enlarge):

 

Now for the sake of the future and my blog, in case these images disappear, let me put in text what this image above says, and despite his spelling mistakes I’ll still write this in verbatim:

October 07, 2022
A NEW SRART

Yes, I have remained quiet on my blog, life starring events tend to do that. However, there is one unifying truth with a life-shattering event.

You cannot change what happened, the past is the past.

Mistakes have been made, but I will not dwell on them.

Failures have occurred, and I will learn deeply from them.

The fact is, I will miss the memories of my children as long as I live. Just as Jesus carried his cross, I must now carry mine, forever. I made the ultimate sacrifice for the safety of my children.

Unlike others, I will not point fingers or name names. There was only one path forward and I took it.

The fact also remains that the last page in this chapter of my life is still been written. Me personally, I know the future will hold better things than the past.

Those who cannot change, those who are incapable of change will be let go.

This is a sick motherfucker.  First he says he’s not going to miss his children, but he’s going to miss their memories – which means in reality he’s going to forget they ever existed in the first place.   Then he goes on to compare himself to Jesus carrying his cross — what!?!?!  Then he made the ultimate sacrifice for his kids safety?? By choosing to keep the woman and throw out his own blood?  He gave them away to foster care for the 2nd time in six years.  And there was only one path forward?  Wow.  What a selfish narcissistic demon. 

Of course, him posting this pissed of the real world.   From my own psychiatrist to social media, they all hurt for my children.  Next, after an uproar he immediately took down his post and followed it with the biggest lie ever.

 

Again, for the sake of this image disappearing, here is the text of this image:

October 30, 2022

I have accepted a national security position as of 10/3/2022

Due to the nature of this position and it’s importance to our nation my online posts have been discontinued.

God bless you all, and God Bless America.

He’s a pretty big narcissist, but come on. 

First off, him using the word “God” as if he is religious is blasphemy.  He has no religion and certainly doesn’t practice it.  Secondly, he’s an idiot.  Now he makes it out like he’s a CIA operative or something.

Doesn’t he realize we have something called the Wayback machine or even Google cache.  It’s a little late to remove.  Not to mention, he’s completely full of shit.  After I commented on his blog that I hope he’s prepared to tell the courts this in a financial affidavit for the near $100K he owes in back alimony the website went down.  Anyway, did I mention he’s a liar?  Yeah, he works for Jacob’s Technology and contracts to a position within NASA.  He doesn’t work for NASA.  They would probably never hire him.  Two domestic violence arrests probably don’t keep you from contracting there though.  Do you know what could be a national security risk though?  The fact that he’s six figures in debt.  Once my case moves forward that will be public record.  Bankruptcy cannot absolve you of alimony. 

Now that I’ve learned he keeps cameras in his bathroom and watches the children, a felony charge of some sort in this case would be appropriate.  At the very least, child endangerment. I’ve witnessed child neglect, child abuse, child endangerment… everything.  We recently reported the cameras over the toilet and they told us they weren’t going to do anything about it and the police told us to go through DCF.  I’ve made the case managers and foster parents aware of it and they are trying to do something about it.  All of the children are psychologically damaged, especially Caitlyn because of what they have seen and done under their father’s care.

Ok, so he was called out on this post being a lie.  Within the hour of this post you now see this:


So I’ve always known him to be a coward, but to completely remove the blog in question makes you think twice about what you read on his blog.  You can go on the Wayback Machine and see I have snapshots  20 years old almost between early blogging sites like blogger, to 4littlemonkies.com, flavells.com, and I can’t really remember them all, however, clearly I could care less what gets seen because I write about the truth and only the truth.  Don’t think twice about what you read on his blog, just think once knowing it’s all a sham and a lie.  Of course, you can go to http://www.archive.org and pull up the last snapshot of his blog, which will pretty much leave you shaking your head at his posts.  He wrote the few posts he had while I was away knowing I couldn’t say anything.  For example, this gem from July 23, 2022 that makes you want to barf.

Remember, just click on the image to see the whole image:

 

Now, this isn’t the entire post, as the post itself was not archived, just the snippet, lucky him! Remember, spelling errors are all from this “well educated” Brit!

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July 23, 2022

BEFORE IS ALL BEGAN

There was a time before NASA, before becoming a business leader, before I rescued my family from the brink of poverty. It was a time when I had nothing, but everything. Everything came from my faith in the future. One night always stands out in my memory. I didn’t have a bed as such, just a mattress on the floor. I also couldn’t afford blankets or heat. Yes, I really had nothing. The night was cold, I woke with every bone in my body shaking. The strange thing was, that I didn’t give up. It would have been easy to quit. My faith in the future however was stronger than any challenge I could ever face. I discovered one key survival strategy that I still use today: 1) Learn from, but don’t fixate on the past – you can not change it. 2) Realise where you are in life – but don’t look too much, it will scare you. 3) Keep your eyes on the horizon – Aim for what you want, and keep going until you get it. It is far too easy for the past and present to distract us.

Just holy Jesus Christ!!!!!!!!!!!!  Before he got his job contracted to NASA through Jacob’s Technology, he made $120,000 a year working for CA, Inc (Computer Associates) for approx. 12-13 years (with a couple jobs in there before going back and forth).  He’s essentially a software engineer.  He is not a NASA engineer… as in working on a rocket.  He was unemployed for a whole 3 months between CA and Jacob’s Technology.  

He was NEVER a business leader.  Just because you register an LLC and advertise does not mean you are a leader.  All his business ventures like the more recent 907 Technologies (who names their business after their wedding date!?) never earned him a penny.  If it did, then he would be required by law to provide those monetary statements to the court due to our marital settlement agreement.  Through Freedom of Information Act, he’s never filed a business tax return or claimed business income. 

The “one night” he’s talking about was after our divorce he moved to Port St. Lucie so he’d be right down the road for the kids.  He chose to get a one bedroom apartment having 4 kids, so the kids when he had them on weekends only, slept in that bedroom.  His choice.  He made $110K at least then, of course he was paying child support and alimony but still, he never had his electric turned off.  We live in Florida also, and then we lived a lot more in South Florida where there is really no such thing as a cold night that would make your bone and body shaking.

In January 2016 yeah, he did give up.  He abandoned the kids and never saw them once while we sank into a hell hole of not having a home to go to, which led us to being in a hotel for 4 months, which led to the incident with Chris on April 14, 2016, which led ultimately to my demise in 2020, which led to my comeback and making him pay for everything in 2022.

He goes on to list one key survival strategy while listing about 4 or 5 things that he doesn’t even realize he don’t do and never did.  He forgot to mention calling your ex wife crying about how you will never be loved again (in the early days post-divorce), beating on your children, leave your children alone to keep relationships alive, ignore medical problems and insect infestations, blame everyone else for everything, make women first in your life, and stop paying your bills.  Those were the keys to his survival.

His wife Roselou being arrested for Felony child abuse, bailing her out of jail, that was the path he chose, and that is when the state stepped in and said he was dangerous and removed my children from that filthy home and those filthy people.  He never showed up to his hearing and now he has a “manifest best interest” hearing I believe this week in which they will strip his parental rights.   That is perfect, but in the state of Florida, he may have to still pay child support.  He’s a failure at what matters most in life.  Family! 

Now I have to go through the courts to get them back.  He fucked my entire family case up, but the children are better off now.  When they strip his parental rights I can continue my family case for the back alimony he owes me and the future alimony he’ll have to pay.  Sorry honey, but just because you don’t think I deserve it doesn’t mean you can unsign that marital settlement agreement.  There is no basis for your claim.

I’m done ranting for now.  I just wanted to update my close followers on what the hell is happening around me. It will get better, so much better.  Karma is my new best friend!!!

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Goal to write…

I’m working on a goal to write 10 minutes per day… of course not right now because it’s 1:45a.m.   Ok, well I can write a few things I suppose.  Ava just had her 12th birthday, she’s getting to be such a big girl. We took her to Target to pick out gifts and Caitlyn got some loom you use with rubber bands. Then we  went to Viera Regional Park and had fun with arts and crafts and hung out for a while before going to Chickfilet for lunch.  I then had to say goodbye 🙁

Matt has a hearing to terminate his parental rights on Monday and Tuesday I find out more about when I get my kids back from his fucking stupid ass abuses in life.  My poor kids.  At least they now know the real life story of their father and that bitch.

I’m working on my website, my portfolio, a business website, my resume and so much more. Still crafting, working on a plate at the moment.  Things are going great with my husband Jason.  He’s just been offered a new job at Presbyterian College in South Carolina but it’s remote work, I believe he will be the Director of Enrollment Operations…. pays a lot more which is good for him.

I’m quite overwhelmed at the moment with what to do with myself. I have so much to do, I don’t even know where to start. At least I got my blog back online, that felt good.  I just need to write more often.  I post of Facebook and Instagram though, YouTube always and maybe i’ll get into this Tik Tok thing!

That’s all for now!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xoxo

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